Spirituality, Sexuality and BDSM.

Some individuals within the BDSM and fetish lifestyle are more comfortable with others knowing about their “taboos”. Unfortunately, even with advances with people being more open-minded as well as the growing number of people joining the fetish community there are still many that keep it in the closet, away from friends, family and even spouses.   Not all activities are as hardcore as others, such as light bondage compared to rope and rigging. What a good majority of vanillas do not realize is that the things that we do are not just for fun but an actual way of life. It brings us joy, completion and excitement, a living embodiment of Art and Passion.   How many of you can truly call it a Spiritual experience?  Non-fetishists and the like as well as partakers also fail to see and feel the Spiritual side of fetish and BDSM.  I cannot speak for everyone of course, but for me it does all of that and then some, brings me to new levels of consciousness, almost like meditation, a ying and yang comes to mind when I’m interacting with my submissives.  It’s balance, shadow and light, pain and pleasure, and of course Dominance and servitude.                                                                Goddesses of old required gifts and deep Devotion, oftentimes the followers kissing their gilded feet, laying bountiful flowers and things of beauty and significance, serving their Goddess was an Honor of the highest degree. In return they not only felt and relished that Honor but were rewarded as well. To be a servant of the Goddess was truly respected.                                                                                                                        Many of today’s Mistresses are very much like those Goddesses. The submissives and devotees the followers, happy to serve yes, but also needing deeply to do so, finding completion only in serving.                         For anyone who does not understand our lifestyle I offer this bit of advice..open your mind, your soul, even open a book about it. This is not a new thing, from ancient religious practices, right of passage rituals, Priestess Initiation to the Houses of Discipline ran by our Mothers of all Mistresses, the Governesses, which were wrongfully confused with brothels of the day.                                                                            Ascension and Evolution come with being human, we are sexual and sensual creatures. It doesn’t seem natural to not include it within our life’s journey, our soul searching or finding our True Selves.                         Let us try everyday to learn something new about ourselves, think outside the box, find our kinky or kinkier selves..and while we’re at it have some fun doing it.       IMG_8464.JPG                  

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2 thoughts on “Spirituality, Sexuality and BDSM.

  1. Reblogged this on dave94015 and commented:
    Is there a the Spiritual side to fetish and BDSM? Is it a spirituality with levels of consciousness of “balance, shadow and light, pain, pleasure and…Dominance and servitude”

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  2. I’ve often thought BDSM was part of an ancient religion with its priestesses’ rituals and the initiation to discipline. Modern religions want to distance their ideology from this…but the need between dominants and submissives is still there.

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